OUR EXPERTISE

The Divorce Doctor is the UK's foremost Certified Divorce Coach and the UK's only Discernment Counsellor. Sue is an award winning author, coach and counsellor. Her latest book, From Me to WE, Plan the Marriage not just the Wedding will be released on Amazon on 22nd November. Sue also has a card deck available on the Deckible app.

PREVENTION IS BETTER THAN CURE

As they say in all the best doctor's surgeries, prevention is better than cure. To this end, Sue works with couples even before they get married to ensure they plan their marriage and not just the wedding. She also works with couples to get them back on track if they feel they are drifting apart. If the disconnect has gone too far and they start talking about makeup or breakup, as the UK's only discernment counsellor she can work with couples to help them make more informed decisions about their relationship.


PRE-MARRIAGE EDUCATION

When YOU and ME come together to make WE, your relationship changes dramatically. In order for the relationship to really thrive you need to develop deep and meaningful communication and connection. Learning to listen is a critical element of effective communication. The pre-marriage education classes are aimed at couples planning to get married. Once you get to know your partner's needs and wants, likes and dislikes, you are well on the way to building a strong and long relationship. However, the topics you need to talk about are not easy topics and you may try to avoid some discussions, With the help of a pre-marriage educator, you will guided to explore to all aspects of your life from career to money, from children to caring, from choices and challenges to connections and conflict.

MARRIAGE MAKEOVER MASTERMIND

The mastermind programme aims to help couples reconnect through improving communication. It asks them some deep exploring questions to relight the spark. Working from a place of respect and understanding, couples learn to open up about their hopes, fears, dreams and challenges in a way that sets the tone for future conversations. It is a powerful tool which has had a great success rate.

DISCERNMENT COUNSELLING FOR COUPLES

When couples are in crisis, too often they go their separate ways without exploring whether it is the right decision for them. Discernment Counselling helps them to decide if their problems can be solved. It helps them make informed decisions with which they are both confident and comfortable.


DIAGNOSIS & TREATMENT PLANNING

Once you've made the decision to separate or divorce, the first person you should talk to is a divorce coach. Divorce coaches are thinking partners who will help you make informed decisions about the right path to travel through your divorce. In every divorce, there are three support areas that are essential to take care of:

  1. Legal support from a family lawyer or mediator
  2. Financial support from a financial planner
  3. Emotional support from a divorce coach

Unless you have taken time to get yourself into a good emotional place, you are not going to be able to take advantage of or ask the right questions to get the best legal and financial advice.


if there are children involved in the breakup, you also need help to make sound decisions about the children's welfare. A professional divorce coach can also help you to  have these discussions in a dignified manner.

DIVORCE ROAD MAP

The divorce road map programme helps you to find the best route through your divorce so you save time, money, and stress. Each session is tailored to your individual needs so that you can rest assured that your divorce will be dignified, supported, and guided by experts

COLLABORATIVE DIVORCE PACKAGES

Many family lawyers and mediators are now seeing the benefit of their clients working with a divorce coach alongside the legal part of their divorce. Sue will work collaboratively with your family lawyer. mediator, and financial advisor/planner to ensure you get the best holistic support package that can be tailored to your own and your family's needs.

DIVORCING WITH DIGNITY

The aim of every divorcing couple should be to leave the marriage in a dignified manner with no acrimony, no passive-aggressive manipulation, no guilt loading, no blaming and shaming and with any children being kept at the centre of all decisions not being thrust in the middle of the battle field being used  as weapons to beat the other partner

CHILD-CENTRED DIVORCE PLANNING

Where children are involved in a divorce, it is imperative they are kept at the centre not in the middle. As a psychologist specialising in child development, Sue will help you to make the divorce as painless as possible for your children. As well as working with adults during divorce, Sue will also work with children to help them understand and cope with the changes that are happening around them.

RECOVERY AND REHABILITATION

Once the divorce is finalised, you need to give yourself time to grieve. Divorce is the second most stressful event you are ever going to go through in your life. It takes time to get over the anger, the shock, the humiliation and every other negative emotion you've experienced during the long arduous divorce journey. 

Working with a divorce coach can help you get through this period faster and in a much healthier way. There are lots of things you can do from working one-to-one with a coach to group support programmes to retreats. Healing is much better with the right support and guidance.

DIVORCE RECOVERY PACKAGES

Sue's divorce recovery packages can be run for individual or groups. Working on confidence-building, self-esteem, mindset, and self-love, Sue runs both online and in-person retreats and courses. 



360 HEALTH & WELLNESS 

As a Master Certified Health & Wellness professional, Sue works holistically to ensure that every part of your life is in balance. This 12-month online programme explores external, internal and symbolic manifestations of health and wellness related to

  • Body, body image, and alignment
  • Air, breathing, and letting go
  • Sleep, self-care, and restoring
  • Water, emotions, and flow
  • Food, awareness, and nourishment
  • Sunshine, inflammation, and personal power
  • Career, work/life balance, and impact
  • Finances, money beliefs, and abundance
  • Spirituality going within and connection
  • Mindset, mental well-being, and expansion
  • Passion and purpose, feeling fulfilled,, and being authentic
  • Personal relationships, self-love and community

 This comprehensive award-winning programme is designed to make sure you thrive not just survive after your divorce.

BREAKUP TO BREAKTHROUGH RETREATS

Spending quality time planning your new exciting life, compiling a bucket list, looking after your health and wellness, and making new friends are just some of the benefits of going on a B2B retreat. The retreat is based around rediscovering your passion and purpose. You come away with a passion map that sets out your short-, medium-, and long-term goals with an action plan to get them achieved